In software development, there’s a term called “cycle time”, or the amount of time between one event and the next.  Releasing features regularly, with short times in between, gives your customers a sense of momentum, a sense that you’re moving, and keeps them engaged.  When cycle time gets too long, you risk customer stagnation; they get disaffected, and lose interest.In marketing, cycle time is about how long your customers go before hearing from you again.  Often called “touch points”, you want to “touch” your customers, in some way, very frequently.  That’s how you build brand recognition, through frequent reinforcement of the same message.

The principle applies all across life, with whatever kinds of customers you may have.

If you’re a parent, it could be said that your customers are your kids.  What’s the cycle time of your “touch points” with them?  How long do they go between instances of poignant interaction?  Are your “teaching moments” few and far between, or do they happen on regular (and short) intervals?

If you’re a spouse, what kind of cycle time do you have with your significant other?  How long has it been since you went on a date?  Had a discussion?  Shared something close to you? Apologized?  Gave her flowers?  Left her a note?  Let them sleep in?   You get the idea.  The same applies if you’re a son, a daughter, a brother, or a sister.  Cycle times are vital aspects of building healthy relationships.

If you’re a teacher your customers are your students.  Teachers often appreciate the importance of repetition in learning and character building.

Cycle time also plays an important role in building your own success (or failure).  Shad Helmstetter, in his book “What to say when you talk to yourself” explains that we naturally tend to move towards your most dominant thought pattern.  Those messages we most frequently reinforce to ourselves tend to come true. 

Is your most frequent message to yourself “I can do it”?  Or is it “it’s too hard”.   Do you tell yourself “I love who I am”, or do you most commonly dwell on your weaknesses?  Either way, it’s the message you tell yourself most frequently that is most likely to come true.

In your own spiritual growth, what is your cycle time?  How often do you… feel the spirit?  Read the scriptures? Have a meaningful prayer?  Go to the Temple?  Pay your tithing?  (insert myriad other religious measurements here depending on your faith)?

The point is, it pays to focus on frequency.


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2 replies
  1. Rusty Lindquist
    Rusty Lindquist says:

    I couldn’t agree more. Life is always abustle, being constantly bombarded with media, decisions, activities, and more, and these regular (and recurring) moments of reflection are core to our well-being.


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